I've learned that the past is the past for a reason, so I'll no longer try to relive it. Instead, I'll just smile at the memories, laugh, cry, or fully commit myself to whatever emotion I need to, but move on.

I've learned that lack of companionship will not stop me from experiencing the things that I want to experience in life. I can't live my life hoping someone will come along with me on the journeys.

I've learned that it's okay to let my guard down and to allow people to see when I'm hurting, scared, or just having a moment.

I've learned that growing up as an only child has made me relish my solitude. More often than not, I am extremely comfortable with being alone. In that same vain, I've also learned that in relationships I need more space than most men are comfortable giving me. So, just like the man needs his cave, I need my woman oasis.

I've learned that I have to truly put forth a lot of effort into the things I love.

I've learned the importance of evolving, and for me that requires consistent movement in whatever environment I find myself. Movement allows me to see and experience things differently and doesn't allow any room to become stagnant.

I've learned that some friendships/relationships are supposed to have an expiration date. Some people come into your life to perhaps contribute in some small or big way to your growth, or to teach you a valuable lesson that you may not realize for years to come.

I've learned that it's okay to give yourself praise periodically (not like Mr. Huge or Kanye) when you've done something brave or something that makes you proud.

I've learned that I prefer not to be around people for long who are doing the exact same thing every day and every year of their lives. This sort of contentment scares me, and I don't want to catch it.

I've learned that I cannot thrive anywhere that lacks diversity and culture, and it's extremely important to me that where I live has a good mix of multicultural people and influences.

I've learned that it's important to just sit amongst nature, whether it's at a park or on the beach, and bask in the silence for a little while. But then I listen. I listen to my surroundings and listen to the truths that will inevitably come. They are always a welcome interruption.

I'm still learning.

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